“I am Square,” Said the Circle

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(Look carefully)
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More commonly you’ll read in an article or hear someone on television say something like this: “I believe it’s important for you to unashamedly live your truth” or “I have become more successful as I’ve discovered what is real for me.” What is alarming is to hear Christian people pick up this notion.

The “live your truth” idea is a fashion of moral relativism, which purports that there is no absolute moral law that objectively applies to everyone everywhere at any time. It’s a “have it your way” philosophy for which there is no right way and belongs to a secular humanist worldview that shuts God out and elevates the value of humans and human contribution.

Apart from the impossibility of living strictly by relativist notions (what happens when my relativism conflicts with your relativism and whose is right?), live your truth people or “truthers” have to deceive themselves to believe that there do not exist moral and ethical boundaries regarding what they ought and ought not be or do. The argument is simply impossible to overcome logically. It becomes slightly easier, however, when God or a moral lawgiver is excised.

What the Ducklings Teach Us

In psychology the term imprinting is used to describe a period or stage in the life of a person or animal, generally young, when behavior is acquired from its parents or perceived parent. We’ve all learned how crucial it is for certain animals to be with their parents after birth and not with humans or inanimate objects that they could take to be their parent.

The young one’s identity and safety are at stake, so it’s important for it to grow up to live and act as it should and not as it might wrongly think of itself. A boy that would be raised by apes never becomes an ape and certainly no Tarzan; instead, he lives as a severely limited human.

Christian people who sincerely pose as truthers are confused. To start, Christians believe in an open system where God is real and acts providentially in the world and for human life. Christians also believe that God is the only moral lawgiver and that his ways are essentially “written in the wind” and apply equally to all humanity and always have. Humanity, although ingenious and capable of great good, is morally fallen and gains spiritual significance as it adheres to God’s moral and ethical duties.

God has never told us to discover what is right for us but to learn his ways, understand his truth, know his will. We are to be holy as he is and lovingly do his bidding. He stands as the rightful imprint of our lives, for we bear his moral image. We walk the way he walks, exactly how he walks, and no further than where he walks. There is no place for “our truth” because we have none to offer. The Battle Hymn of the Republic has it right—“His truth is marching on!”

Further, it’s inadvisable to define ourselves by things we discover about ourselves—what if it is unbecoming or antagonistic to God’s will for us?  This doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t learn more about who we are, our strengths and weaknesses or the issues or vices that operate in our lives. But it does mean that what we discover is placed under the lordship of Christ and either serves his will for us or is diligently eliminated from our hearts.

4 thoughts on ““I am Square,” Said the Circle

  1. “There is no place for ‘our truth’ because we have none to offer.” Amen to that! When I used to “follow my own truth”–that would be when I was an ignorant teen and young adult (not to say I’m that much smarter now, but a little)–I was often miserable. The popular mantra (also a song) “Listen to Your Heart” also offers the same false guidance that you debunk here, which cannot be consistent with the Christian life. The Bible says the heart is deceptive above all else, and the sooner we figure that out, the better we are. I think it’s particularly hard for teens to realize this; I see this with my teen nieces, and I pray that somehow their vision will move outward from all the bad influences immediately in front of them and the deception inside of them to God’s truth–the only real Truth.

    • I love everything you’ve said, especially the Jeremiah scripture reference. Thank you for your testimony and pointing out how inconsistent this idea is with the Christian life. It amazes me how Christianity gets raked over the coals and viewed as outmoded; then I see people dive into foolish and dangerous (and logically flawed) ideas. That’s straining at a gnat and swallowing a camel! Thanks for reading!

  2. Mike, thank you for raising this very important point. You are so right. Those who reject God’s standard for morality will seek to replace it with their own. When we make up our own rules, right and wrong become meaningless concepts.

    For a time is coming when people will no longer listen to sound and wholesome teaching. They will follow their own desires and will look for teachers who will tell them whatever their itching ears want to hear.
    They will reject the truth and chase after myths. 2 Tim 4:3-4

    2 Thes 2:12 says that the result of rejecting His truths and chasing after lies is condemnation. This is something we simply cannot take lightly.

    • Isn’t the scripture so on-point? We Christians have to be careful not to get caught up in or be accepting of everyone’s spiritual jargon because it is not the same as what we believe from the scriptures.

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